A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
I feel to really, deeply love someone is to love their eccentricities, the odd things about them that really define who they are, what separates them from words like 'nice' and 'smart'. Love is not about being nice, its about gelling at an unfathomable level with another person. Its about a wierd antenna connection.....in our case, at least.....of just knowing what the other person is going to say or feel or react, before they know it themselves. Its about letting go of all pretenses, of all preconceived notions and of all expectations. Its absolutely beautiful. Ich liben dich, sjb.